Negative People (Do Not Read If You Suck Energy)

There’s a lot of things that annoy me but the one thing that really bugs me is when people tell me their friend said they should stop losing weight because their face looks too skinny.

Hold the phone?!?!

I have a number of problems with this kind of negativity.

Firstly, why are they your friend if you they can’t support you on your journey to greater confidence and self esteem?

Just because they are jealous of your determination they shouldn’t bring you down to their level.

When you are working hard to be good, at parts feel weak and want to give up, then bitter negative comments are not needed and should never be said.

Those little digs will cause the biggest self doubt in your mind.

You’d never let a thief into your house, right??

So why would you allow thoughts that steal your joy and motivation, to make themselves at home in your mind??

Think about it…

You are what you think.

So what you think about, you bring about.

If you surround yourself with people that bring you down, dump’em!

Don’t stand for it anymore.

You need to take care of yourself because not many people will do it for you.

Start surrounding yourself with people you want to be like and it will FEED your passion and drive to never fail.

Talk to those people.

Become friends.

Enjoy a chin wag over a glass of wine or two.

TALK about your frustrations so you can start to pick yourself back up.

You see, what I have come to realise is, being in a community of like minded people that are in the same shoes as you, is far greater for your on going success than a negative or toxic friend.

If you want outstanding results. You have to create an outstanding environment.

After this, everything else will take care of itself.

This is exactly what we strive to achieve everyday with the ProjectU Team.

“It’s not weights and dumbbells that are the heaviest things to in life to lift. It’s your negative feelings and emotions”.

Yes, I did write the quote above myself…

So ditch the life sucking vampire out of your life and start teaming up with people that feed your motivation and drive you to fulfill your goals.